Five Things it Means When He Says He Wants Space

Posted on May 13, 2009 by Amee in Loserz, Love | No Comments

lot of you guys have been asking various forms of the same question: my dude seems to be putting the brakes on, and I don’t understand what it means. Well, it can mean a few different things …
Listen, I’m not a mind-reader. So I can’t tell you exactly why he says he “needs a [...]

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