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Mr Nice Guy… Does He Ultimately Finish Last?

Posted on May 24, 2009 by Amee in Uncategorized | 2 Comments

lol I am relating this to something I have  been observing and Maybe My really good buddy is the guinea pig in this instance.. [sorry buddy]…

Mr Nice Guy!:

Well he is your typical everyday guy who will help the old woman cross the streets, carry her grocery bag/bags for her, assist her in getting over that shallow drain, give up his NBA PLAYOFFS front row sit for that cancer patient who was 5 more years to live (sorry guys), buy $25o worth of groceries for his apartment and feed the homeless with it… And case in point being, he might just be a suffering medical school student whose family happily supports him but is still jobless and probably the age of 23 nonetheless… Shameful don’t you think… Mr Nice Guy might just be the guy who has a really good friend and always invites him over. To come home one day and this good friend totally colonizes his room and apartment. Probably Mr Nice guy has a crucial exam next week and the friend decides to throw up a big bash for post labor Day!!…

Mr Nice Guy is the type of guy to see you insult him, hear you insult him and still smile and embrace you like no one else would… He would feel sorry for telling you to get off his one and only chair just so he could comfortably have his lunch! Rather, he would eat whilst standing whilst you inhabit his chair like a couch potato just to watch comedy central. Mr Nice Guy might be the one to give up his laptop to you even if he might have this crucial paper to do… Knowing him, he might just get some pen and paper and scribble a whole bunch of ideas and have the excuse that only the final draft should be done electronically…

Hey, I do not blame all the Nice Guys around but personally, I was a Nice Girl before. I am not going to get into the story but as of late, I have been hearing lots about how I was hated, even when I tried to be nice to the subject… it hurt to hear a lot but I guess it was always in goodwill… Now I understand why so many people around us are so wicked and demonic and self centered and so not pleasant. Because probably once in their lifetime someone chose to take advantage of that sweetness.

My boyfriend is one of the sweetest people I know around.. or I use to know actually because someone I know now has taken that position. Not cause he is sweeter than my BF.. but because I had to hustle my Bf to buckle up.. More often than none I had seen people come to him and he would have gone all out of his way… He even did it for me and i use to ask him WHY?

DO not get me wrong, I am all for everyone being pleasant to everyone but some people never appreciate what they have been given… Alot of people around lack discretion. Sometimes people need air to breathe so stop clotting up their space and return to yours gracefully..

Poor Mr nice Guy… but hey like I always tell him, he could always do the Humane thing and boldly tell everyone:

I really have to study or I really do need my space tonight…

Any understanding person would gladly assist YOU, Mr Nice Guy in finding your comfort…!!

Thinking about it, at that rate Mr nice Guy might be going, He might just finish last!